Erotixxx Toys

NEW! HANDBALLER BUTT PLUG

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Product Description

Handballer Butt Plug by Erotixxx Toys: 8 Graduated Sizes, 3 Firmness Levels

The Handballer is a graduated-size butt plug from Erotixxx Toys, available in eight sizes from XXS to XXXL and three firmness levels, cast in platinum-cured silicone with a wide flared base. This plug is not available for purchase with Vac-U-Hole attachments.

Train at your own pace. The Handballer's eight stepped sizes and three firmness options let you start where you're comfortable, build at the rate your body actually wants, and never jump more shape than you're ready for. The spherical head leads, the tapered neck holds it in place without you gripping, and the base mounts to a suction cup or harness when you want it hands-free. Hankey's stocks every size and firmness in platinum-cured silicone- the same body-safe, non-porous material we use on our own catalog.

At a Glance

·     Brand: Erotixxx Toys (Hankey's-stocked, US warehouse)

·     Type: Graduated-size butt plug with attachment-hole base

·     Sizes: XXS, XS, S, M, L, XL, XXL, XXXL (8 total)

·     Firmness: 40% Soft, 75% Soft, Medium-Firm

·     Material: Platinum-cured silicone — phthalate-free, latex-free, non-porous, body-safe

·     Care: Fully waterproof

·     Ships: Discreetly from California, plain brown box, no exterior branding

·     Starts at: $25.95

Why Hankey's Carries the Handballer

We carry a small, deliberate roster of third-party brands alongside our own. The Handballer made the cut for three reasons. First, the size graduation is honest- eight steps, each one distinguishable from the last, which is rare in this category. Second, the firmness range matches how we think about it on our own products: a soft tier for forgiveness, a default everyone reaches for, and a firmer tier for users who specifically want resistance.

Why the Design Works

The Handballer's shape addresses the two failure modes of standard butt plugs: friction on insertion and instability once seated. The spherical head leads with a smooth, even contact surface, the tapered transition reduces pressure during entry, and the contoured neck cinches in so the plug stays where you put it without you actively holding it. The result is a plug you can wear, not just insert.

The base does double duty. It's wide and flared for safety, and the molded attachment hole accepts standard suction-cup mounts, harness adapters, and mount accessories sized for plug bases. That converts the Handballer from a worn plug into a surface-mounted toy in about five seconds.

Quick Buying Guide

Three decisions, in this order:

1. Pick a size

·     New to plugs? XXS or XS.

·     Used standard plugs comfortably? S or M.

·     Trained past mainstream sizes? L–XXL.

·     Specifically chasing extreme stretch? XXXL.

If you're between two sizes, choose the smaller one. The Handballer is designed for graduated training- you'll get more out of working up than starting too big.

2. Pick a firmness

·     Default: 75% Soft. Most popular by a wide margin.

·     Beginner or sensitive: 40% Soft.

·     Want fuller, more deliberate pressure: Medium-Firm.

3. Decide on hands-free

If you want to use the plug mounted on a surface or harness, add a compatible harness adapter.

Size Guide

Insertable is overall length. Circumference is measured at the widest insertable point; base circumference is the wider flared base for harness and mount fit. If you’re between sizes, choose the smaller one and step up after a few comfortable sessions.

Size

Insertable

Base circumference

Circumference

Best for

XXS

2.75" / 7.0 cm

3" / 7.6 cm

5.25" / 13.3 cm

First-time users / warm-up

XS

3.25" / 8.3 cm

4" / 10.2 cm

6.5" / 16.5 cm

Beginners building comfort

S

4" / 10.2 cm

4.5" / 11.4 cm

8" / 20.3 cm

Intermediate users

M

4.75" / 12.1 cm

5.25" / 13.3 cm

9.25" / 23.5 cm

Confident regular users

L

5.5" / 14.0 cm

6" / 15.2 cm

10.5" / 26.7 cm

Experienced users

XL

6" / 15.2 cm

6.75" / 17.1 cm

12" / 30.5 cm

Size-trained users

XXL

6.75" / 17.1 cm

7.5" / 19.1 cm

13.25" / 33.7 cm

Advanced size training

XXXL

7.5" / 19.1 cm

8.25" / 21.0 cm

15" / 38.1 cm

Extreme play / max stretch

 

Firmness Options

Three firmness tiers, all in the same platinum-cured silicone. 

Firmness

Feel comparison

Best for

40% Soft

Yielding, like a ripe avocado

First-time plug users; anyone who wants maximum compression and forgiveness on insertion.

75% Soft

Balanced give, holds shape

Most popular. The default choice if you're between firmnesses or buying your first Handballer.

Medium-Firm

Minimal compression, deliberate stretch

Experienced users who want a fuller, more present feel that holds shape during extended wear.

Who the Handballer Is Best For

·     Size trainers who want a single product line that scales from warm-up to advanced without switching brands.

·     First-time plug users starting at XXS or XS in 40% Soft. If you're curious about other butt plugs Hankey's Toys carries, click here. 

·     Hands-free players who want a base that mounts to a suction cup or harness.

·     Long-wear users who need a contoured neck that stays seated without active grip.

Who it's not for

·     Anyone looking for vibration, suction, or app-controlled features- the Handballer is a manual silicone plug.

·     Users who prefer a straight or tapered cone shape- the Handballer's signature is the spherical head, not a tapered profile.

Material & Safety

Platinum-cured silicone is the highest body-contact tier of silicone available in adult products. It is non-porous (won't harbor bacteria), phthalate-free, latex-free, and rated body-safe by the same standards used for medical-grade silicone components.

Note on lubricant: use water-based or hybrid lubricant only. Check our our Lubrication options here

Use & Care

Before first use

Wash with warm water and mild, unscented soap. Rinse and dry fully. The Handballer ships clean but a pre-use wash removes any residual packaging dust.

During use

Apply lubricant generously (see Material & Safety section for compatible types). Insert with the spherical head leading; the contoured neck will seat naturally once the widest point clears. The flared base prevents over-insertion.

Cleaning

Wash with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated silicone toy cleaner after each use. Dry fully before storing.

Storage

Store separately from other silicone toys. Silicone-on-silicone contact during long-term storage can cause surface migration between products of different cure grades. A cotton pouch or dedicated drawer compartment is enough.

Shipping, Returns & Guarantees

·     Discreet shipping, every order: Plain brown box. No exterior branding. No product reference on the label or packing slip. The product is sealed inside an inner sleeve before it reaches the outer box, so signing for delivery doesn't expose the contents.

·     Returns: Because the Handballer is an intimate-contact product, we cannot accept returns unless the product is defective. 

·     Defect guarantee: If your Handballer arrives with a manufacturing flaw- contact us within 3-5 days and we'll replace it. Photos required.

·     Customer support: Real humans, US-based, San Diego business hours. Sizing and care questions answered the same business day.

Frequently Asked Questions

What size Handballer should I start with?

Start with the XXS or XS Handballer if you're new to butt plugs or toys in general, always safety first. Order S or M if you've used standard plugs comfortably before. Sizing up only after a few comfortable sessions at the previous tier is the whole point of the Handballer's eight-step graduation- most users move up one size at a time, not three. If you're between two sizes, choose the smaller one.

Which firmness should I choose?

Pick by feel, not by size. 75% Soft is the right default if you’re unsure- it gives a balanced response that holds shape without feeling rigid. Go with 40% Soft if you’re newer to plugs or want maximum compression and forgiveness on insertion. Choose Medium-Firm if you specifically want a fuller, more present feel that holds shape during extended wear. All three firmness tiers use the same body-safe platinum-cured silicone, so the body-contact safety profile is identical across the line.

Is platinum-cured silicone body-safe?

Platinum-cured silicone is the highest body-contact tier of silicone available in adult products. It’s non-porous, hypoallergenic, phthalate-free, and latex-free. The Handballer meets the same body-safety standard Hankey’s applies to every product in its own catalog.

What lubricant works with the Handballer?

Use water-based or hybrid lubricant only. Water-based lube is the safest universal choice; hybrid lubes (water-silicone blends below 20% silicone) offer longer slip and are also compatible. 

How discreet is the shipping?

Every Handballer ships in a plain brown box with no exterior branding, no product description on the label, and no Mr. Hankey's name visible on the package or packing slip. The product is sealed in an inner sleeve before it goes in the outer box, so signing for delivery doesn't expose the contents. Discreet shipping is the default for every order- there's no checkbox to enable it.

Can I use the Handballer in the shower?

The Handballer is fully waterproof and works in the shower, bath, or pool. 

About Erotixxx Toys

Erotixxx Toys manufactures the Handballer and a small line of related platinum-silicone plugs. Hankey's stocks the full Handballer size range and all three firmnesses; we don't stock partial inventory because partial inventory defeats the point of a graduated training set. If you have product questions specific to the manufacturer (mold revisions, color batches, new releases), our customer service team can route them directly.

 

A NOTE ABOUT INTERNATIONAL ORDERS 
Customers are responsible for paying all duties and taxes for their respective countries.

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