How to Choose a Strap-On Harness for Lesbian & Nonbinary Partners
Finding the Right Fit for Shared Pleasure
Strap-on harnesses are more than just tools for intimacy; they're expressions of connection, power play, and fantasy exploration. Whether you're a lesbian couple looking to spice up your sessions or a nonbinary person seeking a toy that affirms your gender expression and desires, choosing the proper harness can unlock a whole new world of pleasure.
At MrHankeysToys.com, we specialize in high-end, customizable fantasy dildos and realistic sex toys that pair perfectly with the proper harness. But before you pick your dildo fantasy toy, let’s make sure your harness is up to the task.
Understanding Strap-On Harness Types
- Panty-Style Harnesses
Ideal for beginners and comfort-lovers. These feel like everyday underwear and offer a discreet, body-hugging fit. Pair with smaller or medium-sized realistic dildos or fantasy adult toys for gentle, sensual play.
- Jock-Style Harnesses
Built for power and endurance, these Jock-Style Harnesses, like Corey J’s, are ideal for vigorous thrusting. Popular among those using bigger toys like a huge realistic dildo or even our famous horse dildo.
- Adjustable Strap Harnesses
Maximum flexibility for all body types and preferences. Great for lesbian and nonbinary couples experimenting with size and depth. From seahorse dildos to monster dildos, harnesses like the Mr. S Leather Harness can handle it all.
- Vac-U-Lock & O-Ring Harnesses
Compatible with a wide variety of dildo sizes and shapes, and perfect for fantasy dildo collectors. Whether it’s a dragon dildo or a BBC dildo, these harnesses keep your toy secure. Check out the Carmen Rivera Harnesses here.
Key Features to Look For
- Material: Neoprene, leather, or silicone—choose based on comfort, aesthetic, and how kinky you want to get.
- Size Adjustability: Especially important for nonbinary folks and those who share harnesses.
- Stability & Comfort: A good harness stays in place, no matter how intense the action gets.
- O-Ring Compatibility: Ensure it can accommodate different dildo girths—from realistic to massive dildo fantasies.
Best Pairings from Mr. Hankey's Toys
When it comes to combining your strap-on with the perfect toy, MrHankeysToys.com has everything your imagination could desire:
- Realistic BBC Dildo – For lovers of intense realism.
- Dragon Dildos – Take a walk on the wild side with our most exotic shapes.
- Goliath Dildo – A legend for a reason—massive, powerful, and awe-inspiring.
- Fisting Dildos – For advanced play and high-stamina sessions.
